Do you want a happy marriage?

If you said yes, then keep reading. I’ve had a happy marriage for thirty years. I met my husband at a bible study. I found out that he loved God as much as I did. That was the beginning of happily ever after. God has always been the center of our relationship. He is the key to our success. Why is God so important? God is love. That is why he is so important. He can teach you how to love your spouse. We have a great marriage because we trusted God to teach us about love.

Secret #1 – Love is the superpower of marriage.

True love is kind, patient, and long suffering. It causes you to respect and  value your spouse. Love will help you to communicate in ways that are not harmful. Love makes you think more of your spouse than yourself.

Secret #2 – Follow your heart.

You will know when the right person comes along. Everything will feel right. You will not have any doubt. Deep down inside you will feel an awesome connection. The right person can give you a happy marriage. The wrong person can destroy your life. Ask God to guide you. He will show you the way.

Secret #3 – Have the same core values.

I get along very well with my husband because we have the same core values. We share the same faith, communication styles, and child raising beliefs. We enjoy the same things, like traveling, healthy living and leisure activities.

Secret #4 – Keep love alive.

Never let the spark go out of your marriage. Always do things together. Enjoy each other’s company. Make it a point to date.

Secret #5 – Touch.

Affection and intimacy go a long way in marriage. Touch often. Kiss daily. Never stop hugging each other. Hold hands. Be friends.

Secret #6 – Communicate.

Learn how to speak to each other. Complement each other. Use words to build each other up.

Secret #7 – Look Good.

If you want a happy marriage pay attention to how you look. You were first attracted to a handsome man or a beautiful woman. Keep it that way. Be beautiful. Be handsome. Don’t let yourself go. Keep the attraction strong so that they will never want to turn their head.

Happily ever after does exist. It’s yours for the taking. There are many people just like me that have a happy marriage. A study of hundreds of retired people shared how they kept a great marriage. Hope this article inspires you.